Opinions

So, it's true, opinions are like belly buttons everyone has one. I'm just tired of everyone thinking that I'm supposed to take theirs into consideration in my everyday life. Honestly, I've finally gotten to the point that the only person whose opinion I should be listening to is my own.

Everyone seems to know what's best for me. I want you all to listen when I say this.........I'm a big girl, I can make my own decisions/mistakes. But in all honesty, this isn't a mistake. It is by far the exact opposite, it's the best thing that's ever happened to me.

This is the absolute happiest I've been in the last 8 years, so what does that tell you? It should tell you that if I trust me and my choice, then so should you. I'm fully aware that I'm no longer the only person I have to think about in life. I know that I'm responsible for a whole other human being and his well being. I wouldn't EVER put my son in harms way, so trust that I know he's innocent of anything that she's said he's done.

I love him, and that above all else should tell you something. You saw it yourselves, when the people that I thought were my close friends didn't even show up to wish my son a happy birthday, he did. He was there until the wee hours of the morning with me getting things ready and he was back the next day to support me and be there for me. He love that little boy as much as I do, and possibly even more than he loves me. I couldn't ask for someone better to have around my son.

Now....keep your opinions to yourself from now on, because you know that all they're going to do is make me angry and push me away. When I say I'm going to take my son and leave, I'm not threatening you, I'm going to do it. And it'll probably be sooner than you want me to. But when you threaten to take MY son from me.....I'll fight you with everything in my being. You have no grounds, nor do you have justification enough for a court as to why he shouldn't be with me. You will never in your life be able to say that I'm an unfit mother and you know it, so don't even try.

You are and always will be my family, so PLEASE don't make me do something that we all will regret later on down the road.


I love you, and always will, just let me be happy.

<3 T